From what I know, many swinger couples think it is too much trouble to look for the suitable swinger third every time they want to have a tinder threesome. That is true. A satisfactory third can be very hard to find. When you do find him/her, you would probably like to keep him/her as a regular swinger partner. You might think this is a good idea. However, it is actually not. It is a terrible idea, especially for your relationship. Being sexually connected with someone regularly can damage your current relationship with your significant other. How come? Because people can easily grow romantic feelings to another person whom they spend time with regularly. For example, if you and your husband have threesomes with another girl regularly, there could be romantic feelings generated between them in a long run. You definitely don’t want that to happen, right? Therefore, I am suggesting you all that do not develop any regular swinger lifestyle partners no matter how perfect you think he/she is and how much you both like him/her, for the sake of your current relationship.
The reason I am telling you this is that I was there before in my life. There was a certain stage of my life where I felt lonely and depressed during that time. I solved it by having threesome with different kinds of people. Well, actually, couples, kinds of swinger couples. I met one couple whom I really like. They liked me too. They even brought up a proposal that I should be their regular threesome guest. I agreed happily.
As a single male, I found myself having a crush on the wife, but I didn’t say anything about it, since they were a married couple, I would hate myself for doing anything to sabotage their relationship. But I guess feelings cannot be hidden. They will sneak out more or less. I kind of having this feeling that she liked me too. Every time when she looked at me, I saw tenderness and sparkles in it, which made me like her more. She didn’t say anything about it and neither did I. I could be settled and satisfied for just being their regular threesome partner as long as I got time to be with her, even though not alone.
That weekend, I went to their house to have threesome. It was a perfect threesome, just like any other times. The next day, I received a call from her saying that I would no longer be their regular threesome partner and she thanked me for the pleasure I brought them. I asked her why. She wouldn’t say it. I said “it is because we have feelings for each other?” She said yes and then she hung up. She chose her marriage over me, which was the right thing to do. I was pretty upset about it, but I was also glad that she made the right choice. Therefore, I am here to tell you that never develop a regular threesome partner. Maybe the result would alter if it were you.